Dear Tango,
My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to a year. His birthday is next month and he wants a threesome as a birthday present. My boyfriend told me that there is a woman at work that he is attracted to and whom he thinks would be willing to join us for a threesome because she is always very flirty with him.
I'm not a prude but the thought of sharing my boyfriend with another woman makes me uneasy. I love my boyfriend and want to make him happy, but I am afraid that he is growing bored with me and that is why he wants the threesome.
What do you think? Should I go through with this to make him happy, despite my misgivings?
Worried in Warwick
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Dear Worried,
Of course your boyfriend wants a threesome for a birthday present; that is a turn-on and fantasy of many men. However, I believe you do have cause to worry.
You say your boyfriend already has someone lined up; someone close to him, whom he sees 5 days a week and whom he is attracted to and flirty with. And if you loved him enough you would give him the present that he really really wants for his birthday.
This sounds to me like he is manipulating you. Basically, he wants your permission to fuck his co-worker, and, oh, by the way, you can join in too; wouldn't that be fun?
Um…no. In the particular situation you describe, it doesn't sound like fun at all.
It has been my experience that, when it comes to threesomes, it is always best to be the "guest star" and not one of the main characters. And it is crucial that the "guest star" not be someone your boyfriend sees all the time and clearly wants to fuck. Recipe for disaster.
You fear that your boyfriend wants a threesome because he is growing bored with you? Here's what.
Go to an adult store that sells naughty costumes and lingerie. Buy something indecently sexy and provocative. Fishnets, a garter belt and g-string and a bustier. Or a school girl outfit. Go online and buy a wig - I suggest a hair color and style completely different from your own - or any red-haired wig. Also purchase some toys. I recommend, at the very least, a dildo, an ass plug and a vibrator.
Greet him at the door in full costume. You are not you. You are a fuckbunny, there only to cater to whatever your boyfriend desires. Your boyfriend will feel like he is having sex with a different woman. And he kind of is.
Start to amass a sartorial collection that will make his cock hard in 10 seconds. In my bedroom, I have an overflowing chest of such clothing and toys that is tantalizingly close to the bed…and I make it a point for my boytoy-of-the-moment to know what the chest contains. So he never knows what (or who) he is going to get.
If your boyfriend still wants to invite his co-worker into bed, get rid of him. Or agree on one condition: that the first threesome you have will be with a male coworker of yours. Search the web until you find a picture of a man with the looks and body of a Greek god. Show your boyfriend this picture and tell him it is your coworker and, if he agrees to a threesome with YOUR coworker, you will agree to a threesome with HIS coworker.
Your boyfriend will then tell you that, actually, he wants golf clubs or a power tool for his birthday. And then get him the very best of whichever he wants.
Good boy.
Have fun,
Tango
My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to a year. His birthday is next month and he wants a threesome as a birthday present. My boyfriend told me that there is a woman at work that he is attracted to and whom he thinks would be willing to join us for a threesome because she is always very flirty with him.
I'm not a prude but the thought of sharing my boyfriend with another woman makes me uneasy. I love my boyfriend and want to make him happy, but I am afraid that he is growing bored with me and that is why he wants the threesome.
What do you think? Should I go through with this to make him happy, despite my misgivings?
Worried in Warwick
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Dear Worried,
Of course your boyfriend wants a threesome for a birthday present; that is a turn-on and fantasy of many men. However, I believe you do have cause to worry.
You say your boyfriend already has someone lined up; someone close to him, whom he sees 5 days a week and whom he is attracted to and flirty with. And if you loved him enough you would give him the present that he really really wants for his birthday.
This sounds to me like he is manipulating you. Basically, he wants your permission to fuck his co-worker, and, oh, by the way, you can join in too; wouldn't that be fun?
Um…no. In the particular situation you describe, it doesn't sound like fun at all.
It has been my experience that, when it comes to threesomes, it is always best to be the "guest star" and not one of the main characters. And it is crucial that the "guest star" not be someone your boyfriend sees all the time and clearly wants to fuck. Recipe for disaster.
You fear that your boyfriend wants a threesome because he is growing bored with you? Here's what.
Go to an adult store that sells naughty costumes and lingerie. Buy something indecently sexy and provocative. Fishnets, a garter belt and g-string and a bustier. Or a school girl outfit. Go online and buy a wig - I suggest a hair color and style completely different from your own - or any red-haired wig. Also purchase some toys. I recommend, at the very least, a dildo, an ass plug and a vibrator.
Greet him at the door in full costume. You are not you. You are a fuckbunny, there only to cater to whatever your boyfriend desires. Your boyfriend will feel like he is having sex with a different woman. And he kind of is.
Start to amass a sartorial collection that will make his cock hard in 10 seconds. In my bedroom, I have an overflowing chest of such clothing and toys that is tantalizingly close to the bed…and I make it a point for my boytoy-of-the-moment to know what the chest contains. So he never knows what (or who) he is going to get.
If your boyfriend still wants to invite his co-worker into bed, get rid of him. Or agree on one condition: that the first threesome you have will be with a male coworker of yours. Search the web until you find a picture of a man with the looks and body of a Greek god. Show your boyfriend this picture and tell him it is your coworker and, if he agrees to a threesome with YOUR coworker, you will agree to a threesome with HIS coworker.
Your boyfriend will then tell you that, actually, he wants golf clubs or a power tool for his birthday. And then get him the very best of whichever he wants.
Good boy.
Have fun,
Tango
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